OnPath’s Undeniable Truths
Undeniable Truths About Life
Healing requires grace, truth, and time
You have the problems you tolerate
Ultimately, our lives exist to glorify God
Difficult problems usually require difficult solutions
What you say reveals what is in your heart
Blame is the parking break for healing
Reality is your friend, because everything else is fantasy
God’s system of justice is different than our system of justice
God disciplines those he loves
The truth is never the problem
Some endings are necessary
Life is always worth living
Every saint has a past and every sinner has a future
Whatever begins in anger ends in shame
There is no sin - except unbelief - which God cannot forgive.
God can transform anyone willing to be transformed.
People often retreat to controlling behavior when they are afraid.
Three things keep us from moving forward and being who God intends us to be: fear, insecurities, and shame.
The source of nearly all psychological and emotional problems is a lack of emotional bonding in human relationships.
The most miserable people in this world are Christians who live as if they are not Christians.
Forgiveness is hard. Really hard.
You will never prove your self-worth through performance.
That which cannot be gained by performance cannot be lost through lack of performance
You are responsible for what you say, do, and feel.
Grace and truth, over time, are required for healing, emotional bonding, and the development of authentic relationships.
There are nine “A’s” that lead to marital problems. Most marriages can survive one of these. The presence of two makes is very difficult. Three or more, and the marriage will fail: Affairs, Abuse, Addictions, Anger, Apathy, Absoluteness, Aggression, Artificiality, and Arrogance.
There are nine “C’s” that lead to great marriages. They are: Christianity, Character, Communication, Compatibility, Commitment, Chemisty, Compassion, Celebration, and Cooperation.